Since last September started, I started learning to use weekends to complete the unfinished dream, I want to get a university degree, seemingly simple things, however, created two of the kids of my great rebound, and in the first end of the semester , I also began to think to give up.
Because during the day to go to work at night to take and care of children, child's homework and corrections, homework are in my shoulders, rather than my husband do not help, he is busy, Only am grateful for that, is almost 12 points a day before his work, but also to help clear meals bowl. It has made me very touched, because then the little boy back to school, prior to the agreement is good, my wealth is not suitable for hand-washing dishes bowl symptoms Therefore, cleaning work is handed over to him, he was gladly accepted. As for the other household-sharing, it is in this semester, has been dramatically changed.
I am a kindergarten teacher, often seen in recent years because of the relationship between the declining birthrate, it is almost everything the children are parents, grandparents, themselves, afraid their children dirty hands and wet clothes. Examples There is a little boy in my class, he is a big classes student .One day, his mother came to school to pick him up, he was wiping the table to help the teacher than his mother said the next: Teacher, my children come to school is to learn, not to rub on the table. You guess what? I smile the moment against the mother said;:Of course, the baby go to school to learn, and wipe the table is also a learning experience . In fact, you let him learn every things in kindergarten of the affairs and basic skills,than he went to outside made fun of his peers will not come .Well, classroom is everyone's, every person has a responsibility to maintain the environment and clean up it. Do you agreement? Of course, the moment the mother also agree with me who said, after which she will be more assured that the home-wai a treasure to me to teach. After that, of course, the same mom or dad for this kind of issue to be raised by a small number, And I still have to be consistent ideas and communicate with them.
And in my life, my children is how division of labor it? 8-year-old sister, is responsible for folding clothes, dry clothes and clothes into the washing machine Jiang and classified the work of 4-year-old brother, is responsible for dry socks, folding socks, will close down and dry the clothes into the dryers, the father is responsible for washing dishes bowls, and sometimes they also responsible for sweeping and mopping the floors. through our concerted efforts, under very quickly we can the completion of chores of. If we like traveling holidays , make sure everyone was out with the housework done. In fact, the beginning, there was no deliberate ask them is to first use to teach in a manner that slowly accumulated bit by bit the.
You may ask me, that if they do wrong with that? Has just begun, there will be less than ideal situation, do not scold them right away, it should be after the first, thank you and encourage clear that, if so how it can be a better . I believe that, after repeated efforts, they will do great. You may ask me again, that kids will want to reward? My answer is, do not wait for children to reward, but rather took the initiative to reward their children, in the Our family is based on cumulative points system, two housework can change a star, a star is 1 droll may seem small, but not too little accumulated ~ More recently, because the childcare's birthday soon arrived, respectively in May and June, we have set a new system is an extra reward if they can reach 50 at the birthday star can in exchange for a wish. This method for the 8-year-old sister, quite attractive, 4 year-old brother was driving in the sister's efforts to reach the next.
In the last week, I returned home after class and found the home had been cleaned up outside the balcony of the clothes are collected at the well, folded, and is neatly placed in the wardrobe, full hearts can not help but be deeply touched. Of course, not forgotten to the President and the children greatly encouraged. the above is my personal sharing and collective experience, you may to try?, perhaps, have different harvest ~ also do not forget that children are coming to imitate adults, teaching by example, and give verbal directions are very important and key.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
How to cultivate children's reading habits
How to cultivate children's reading habits
According to survey results indicate that the average 13-year-old former child love to read, will take the initiative to read the ratio is about 50 percent less, most of the time on television and in front of computers than the percentage was about 70 But its proportion is gradually rising.
I still remember last week when I am on duty at the school gate, the middle shift received a bleary-eyed children, got off, even the station stood instability strike when Dad said:yesterday, he played to 12 points before electric sleep.
I ask in my mind:why you let him play video games to 12 points? that he was less than 5 years of age, it seems the modern concepts and methods of rearing and educating parents and what we seem to imagine there are many gaps. After that, in the detailed and their class teacher to understand, before we know his mother was a foreign brides.fatherin addition to work during the day, the return home with their children playing computer, while the kids wait for his father off before he is willing to shut down. No wonder every day to school bleary-eyed .
Are today's kids In addition to computers and watching television and have no other interest in or do do do? Which we as parents should be how to foster children's reading habits and interest in art?
I think I am not the mother of 100%but at least read this part of the culture, but also self-evaluation, 80 points, the following, I will share how I develop my home two precious reading habits and interests.
1. Childhood reading.
From my oldest son was born, he got the first book, is a bath book, this time in the bath when the toys, I carried my baby can also be read in conjunction with his book, naturally baby's favorite. Then down, baby into the oral period, like the item into the mouth, so, my mother prepared a cloth book for baby to play, not only easy to clean baby's mouth also have to worry about security issues. 6 months later, I had prepared for the Baby Lara book and a simple audio books, in the past one years old, I intend to touch the book. in a series of arrangement, baby for the book, such items, it is already very familiar with the book of life has become non-or one of the missing toys.
2. Parent-child reading
I am a career woman, a day after returning to work early and come home to take care of children and organize household chores, I believe that many mothers will have the same feeling, that is, a word `tired. Yes! Really tired, but in order to baby the future is worth the hard bar
! I stick to help the baby a bath, unless the overtime, because then the bath is part of our intimate time, helped him in the dressing, you will feel the joy and surprise that growth. I am also very much insist on their own at night with children, parents and children read them together before going to sleep because two of our favorite moments, my husband's work is very busy most of the time, all my kids were accompanied reading, compared to Mr. Line and then have ample time with their children, when possible, by He and I take turns to accompany children to read, my son is now an 8-year-old and 5-year-old, we still go to bed before the parents and children every day were read, the kids will want to sleep because there are a total of the previous read and will abide by all the family norms. Therefore, parent-child reading for us, really the two things in one fell swoop 唷.
3. The children studied under many of the books
I always say; what my family more than his books. In addition to the book someone else other than, of course, buy! In fact, at first because they have to work to take care of children but also to study, so the only option for my children's books, Later, the child is getting, and take them to the Eslite bookstore, in addition to enable them to immerse in the book world, but also to learn the etiquette in public places. kids surprised me is that 4-year-old son once took a The Monkey King comic books, about 50 pages or so! a tender age, he is now able to read quietly in the beginning I worried that he was just casually looking through, what they would have no patience, and the results made me surprised. What is the book her sister would try to read, perhaps because girls in it, most of them are choice art books are more creative or arts and crafts related to the type of book. I would say is no need to prohibit their children to see what type of books , of course, except for restricted or excessive violence. as long as the children can enjoy in the book or find a little bit of fun, it will be worthwhile.
4. Parents need to read
Each parent must all be, Succeed, Wang Cheng-feng women. A child of any act in any language, in fact come to imitate, if the parents can at any time at rest, that's book to read books, the children will naturally after a long time mimic your behavior, the children will be curious, are you looking at? really have that look nice?, etc. ... doubt. and let the kids active spontaneity of reading, than the effect of passive come much better. When we re-prepared before the exam, the mother is always pushing behind the scenes; do not hurry to go to study, that was pushed into the mood was really hard to bar! active if it is able to pick up the book to, is not it feel different?
All in all, develop the habit of reading it takes time to accumulate, but if you can work from now on, for our children's future, even though he may not be able to read the results because the top, even though he may not be able to read while because of grand achievement, but ,. Please be assured that he would love to read but because of their own piece of the sky.
According to survey results indicate that the average 13-year-old former child love to read, will take the initiative to read the ratio is about 50 percent less, most of the time on television and in front of computers than the percentage was about 70 But its proportion is gradually rising.
I still remember last week when I am on duty at the school gate, the middle shift received a bleary-eyed children, got off, even the station stood instability strike when Dad said:yesterday, he played to 12 points before electric sleep.
I ask in my mind:why you let him play video games to 12 points? that he was less than 5 years of age, it seems the modern concepts and methods of rearing and educating parents and what we seem to imagine there are many gaps. After that, in the detailed and their class teacher to understand, before we know his mother was a foreign brides.fatherin addition to work during the day, the return home with their children playing computer, while the kids wait for his father off before he is willing to shut down. No wonder every day to school bleary-eyed .
Are today's kids In addition to computers and watching television and have no other interest in or do do do? Which we as parents should be how to foster children's reading habits and interest in art?
I think I am not the mother of 100%but at least read this part of the culture, but also self-evaluation, 80 points, the following, I will share how I develop my home two precious reading habits and interests.
1. Childhood reading.
From my oldest son was born, he got the first book, is a bath book, this time in the bath when the toys, I carried my baby can also be read in conjunction with his book, naturally baby's favorite. Then down, baby into the oral period, like the item into the mouth, so, my mother prepared a cloth book for baby to play, not only easy to clean baby's mouth also have to worry about security issues. 6 months later, I had prepared for the Baby Lara book and a simple audio books, in the past one years old, I intend to touch the book. in a series of arrangement, baby for the book, such items, it is already very familiar with the book of life has become non-or one of the missing toys.
2. Parent-child reading
I am a career woman, a day after returning to work early and come home to take care of children and organize household chores, I believe that many mothers will have the same feeling, that is, a word `tired. Yes! Really tired, but in order to baby the future is worth the hard bar
! I stick to help the baby a bath, unless the overtime, because then the bath is part of our intimate time, helped him in the dressing, you will feel the joy and surprise that growth. I am also very much insist on their own at night with children, parents and children read them together before going to sleep because two of our favorite moments, my husband's work is very busy most of the time, all my kids were accompanied reading, compared to Mr. Line and then have ample time with their children, when possible, by He and I take turns to accompany children to read, my son is now an 8-year-old and 5-year-old, we still go to bed before the parents and children every day were read, the kids will want to sleep because there are a total of the previous read and will abide by all the family norms. Therefore, parent-child reading for us, really the two things in one fell swoop 唷.
3. The children studied under many of the books
I always say; what my family more than his books. In addition to the book someone else other than, of course, buy! In fact, at first because they have to work to take care of children but also to study, so the only option for my children's books, Later, the child is getting, and take them to the Eslite bookstore, in addition to enable them to immerse in the book world, but also to learn the etiquette in public places. kids surprised me is that 4-year-old son once took a The Monkey King comic books, about 50 pages or so! a tender age, he is now able to read quietly in the beginning I worried that he was just casually looking through, what they would have no patience, and the results made me surprised. What is the book her sister would try to read, perhaps because girls in it, most of them are choice art books are more creative or arts and crafts related to the type of book. I would say is no need to prohibit their children to see what type of books , of course, except for restricted or excessive violence. as long as the children can enjoy in the book or find a little bit of fun, it will be worthwhile.
4. Parents need to read
Each parent must all be, Succeed, Wang Cheng-feng women. A child of any act in any language, in fact come to imitate, if the parents can at any time at rest, that's book to read books, the children will naturally after a long time mimic your behavior, the children will be curious, are you looking at? really have that look nice?, etc. ... doubt. and let the kids active spontaneity of reading, than the effect of passive come much better. When we re-prepared before the exam, the mother is always pushing behind the scenes; do not hurry to go to study, that was pushed into the mood was really hard to bar! active if it is able to pick up the book to, is not it feel different?
All in all, develop the habit of reading it takes time to accumulate, but if you can work from now on, for our children's future, even though he may not be able to read the results because the top, even though he may not be able to read while because of grand achievement, but ,. Please be assured that he would love to read but because of their own piece of the sky.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
To my sister in law - Su-Mei
Up to now I still can not accept, you have left us this fact.
I do not know why God he has done such an arrangement
Which we are all still need you when you picked up
In the Cheng Ching , Yun Zheng is in need of companionship when you are
He chose to take you away
As the immediate past distinctly
Your laughter
Your well taken care of
Your listen topatience
You teach each children
Are so I can not forget ah
My mother in law asked me:
Do you really turned into stars in the sky and
Which one
She did not know
When she had finished dinner out to see did not see
20:00 going out to see when they did not see
10 :00, and she would like to know you better turned into the sky where a star
I do not know how to tell her
I can only comfort her
If the mother had been sad
If You know, they you will be sad
We have to take care own
As you look at the illness does not remind us to laugh, be happy
But every time a thought of you,
And how to laugh out of how fun it
Sister, my dear sister
I tried to convince myself that bless you
But the heart has been in doubt
Like mother
Why is you? Why do you have to bear the long sickness of people can not afford?
Why do you want such a strong will to mental illness for possession?
I'm really good having left you to leave
In the memorial service at the
I once cried to are neither
To hear the husband say to you when it is heartbreaking and heart ache
I know, the most distressed people are husband and two children and mother,father
And those of us brothers and sisters and wives of brothers inside do is for you to take care of your husband, and the children be properly
And filial piety for you mom and dad be properly
Let you even not here and also can be happy in heaven watching us
Finally, if I can, whether or not I can ask God, Why you picked up my sister ?
I do not know why God he has done such an arrangement
Which we are all still need you when you picked up
In the Cheng Ching , Yun Zheng is in need of companionship when you are
He chose to take you away
As the immediate past distinctly
Your laughter
Your well taken care of
Your listen topatience
You teach each children
Are so I can not forget ah
My mother in law asked me:
Do you really turned into stars in the sky and
Which one
She did not know
When she had finished dinner out to see did not see
20:00 going out to see when they did not see
10 :00, and she would like to know you better turned into the sky where a star
I do not know how to tell her
I can only comfort her
If the mother had been sad
If You know, they you will be sad
We have to take care own
As you look at the illness does not remind us to laugh, be happy
But every time a thought of you,
And how to laugh out of how fun it
Sister, my dear sister
I tried to convince myself that bless you
But the heart has been in doubt
Like mother
Why is you? Why do you have to bear the long sickness of people can not afford?
Why do you want such a strong will to mental illness for possession?
I'm really good having left you to leave
In the memorial service at the
I once cried to are neither
To hear the husband say to you when it is heartbreaking and heart ache
I know, the most distressed people are husband and two children and mother,father
And those of us brothers and sisters and wives of brothers inside do is for you to take care of your husband, and the children be properly
And filial piety for you mom and dad be properly
Let you even not here and also can be happy in heaven watching us
Finally, if I can, whether or not I can ask God, Why you picked up my sister ?
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
My busy and happiness life
My busy and happiness life
I wake up on six every morning , take my child go to school on seven than go to office on eight. Six o'clock in the afternoon I came home and take my child .Six to nine is really busy in the evening, because we must eat dinner ,take a shower, help them finish their homework .they are really simple to me ,but to a eight and five ages child , they need more time to do .
Exactly,we have a puppy this years , so I feel busier than before. But ` Love your choice and choice you love.
From Monday to Friday are my family days ,Saturday to Sunday are my study day. I thought tried last semester and wanted to give up . This semester better and relax I felt .Now , my life also busy but happiness.
To my daughter Lynn my son Risto
I wake up on six every morning , take my child go to school on seven than go to office on eight. Six o'clock in the afternoon I came home and take my child .Six to nine is really busy in the evening, because we must eat dinner ,take a shower, help them finish their homework .they are really simple to me ,but to a eight and five ages child , they need more time to do .
Exactly,we have a puppy this years , so I feel busier than before. But ` Love your choice and choice you love.
From Monday to Friday are my family days ,Saturday to Sunday are my study day. I thought tried last semester and wanted to give up . This semester better and relax I felt .Now , my life also busy but happiness.
To my daughter Lynn my son Risto
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