Have you ever dream one day that can study when you were married and have two child. Some person heard that said: you must be crazy? You will be very tried? How can you balance in work, family and collage? Who can help you take care your child? Yes, so many questions around in my mind and from my friends even my mother and my young sister. But only my husband said just doing it, if you really want to do, don `t think too much about child, I can take care them. It was to touch to me.
My dream is get the college background and learn more knowledge in English. Before I came to collage learn English is a interest to me, I also try to teach my two child and my student, I hope them can interest in English, When I was a junior high school student, one day, I heard the ICRT on air, at the that time I did not understand what he said but it was attract me, from at that time learn English was my interest. Another supported me study in collage reason is when I knew pass the test and get my family supports, they agree me studied on the Saturday and Sunday than take care my two child, their advocate was the real supported me study in collage.
I still remember that week was the last week could enter collage test. I prepare everything hurry, than drive to the collage by my self first time, also I was lost way and spend two hours arrive there. Than when I came home spend two hours either, lost way again, I thought that if I must drive four hours every holiday, it was a long drive to me. So on the exam day my husband took me drive another way; it is real faster, just forty mines. The exams day was very hot and I felt nervous, too. After few weeks, I get the notify from collage that I pass the test, real lucky, I thought. Than we talk about hoe to take care child on holiday than I studied one year already now.
Final, I did not to repent study in the collage, of course my two child want me stop study and spend more time with them, in the collage, I knew many nice teachers and friends, we help each other and learn more know ledges from book also outside text books .It was a correct decision in my life.
Monday, December 6, 2010
My stress management
Did you have some stress on your job or family , everyone maybe have . point is how to do the stress management and get a new day . Some one said : happy a day , sad a day , do you want choice a happy or a sad day ? So, stress management is very important to us . Than , I will share my stress management. Some times I feel can not breath ,wear or some things very to perplex me. Maybe on the work or family .I will try to set free the stress and find the right to solve the problems , than tell myself use the forward ponder to think over ,but I still have a good way to set free the stress.
First , I will to ask a leave than eat a leisurely and carefree breakfast , drink a coffee and watch the magazine that I like.when I have a sunny morning time , I will drive my car along to leave for Shimen reservoir .There has very beautiful view and many parking speace, quiet and relex; also , I will walk around the Reservoir stockade to enjoy the sound from birds and bathes under the sun light , when I feel a little tired , can set on the chair or in my car , reading there also the best .
Next , in the lunch time , I will move to Taxi there is near the Shimen reservoir , Traditional good food is a good choice , sometimes full feeling also can let me happy .Walk on the traditional road let me think a lots of childhood memory ; it will let me feel as soon as the understanding samile .Ancient building let me to recalled the labor from beforehand person , so , now my stress just a little thing in my life, right now , I feel better. Last , in the afternoon , I will receive my two child home than cook dinner and we talk about the school on table than go to bed early , get ready every thing for new day coming. Because have a health and energy body must can reopen every thing.
My stress management is likely one day travel , it can really relax my stress.To admire the beautiful view and to enjoy the delicacies or reading , all the way can set free the stress, walked to out door and breath fresh air , pondered again , you will get new think over and analyze again. Does not want to injures itself or anyone, it will be awful yourslef and some person . Have the right ponder is important to every thing .It is dogged as does it.
First , I will to ask a leave than eat a leisurely and carefree breakfast , drink a coffee and watch the magazine that I like.when I have a sunny morning time , I will drive my car along to leave for Shimen reservoir .There has very beautiful view and many parking speace, quiet and relex; also , I will walk around the Reservoir stockade to enjoy the sound from birds and bathes under the sun light , when I feel a little tired , can set on the chair or in my car , reading there also the best .
Next , in the lunch time , I will move to Taxi there is near the Shimen reservoir , Traditional good food is a good choice , sometimes full feeling also can let me happy .Walk on the traditional road let me think a lots of childhood memory ; it will let me feel as soon as the understanding samile .Ancient building let me to recalled the labor from beforehand person , so , now my stress just a little thing in my life, right now , I feel better. Last , in the afternoon , I will receive my two child home than cook dinner and we talk about the school on table than go to bed early , get ready every thing for new day coming. Because have a health and energy body must can reopen every thing.
My stress management is likely one day travel , it can really relax my stress.To admire the beautiful view and to enjoy the delicacies or reading , all the way can set free the stress, walked to out door and breath fresh air , pondered again , you will get new think over and analyze again. Does not want to injures itself or anyone, it will be awful yourslef and some person . Have the right ponder is important to every thing .It is dogged as does it.
How to do good communction to your child ?
Did you ever feel leaves sparsely with your child when they are growth up day by day, even you cannot understand what are they thinking?
I want share some suggestions maybe can improve you and your child closely.
The first one is use your ear: listen, if your child want talk with you, do not to do another thing just listen what he(she) say. And remember donor have bad emotion even you really very angry, just come down. When he (she) talk finish than you can share your ideas with child.
The seconded is time: give time together with your child, like family day or dinner time .if you have time, even just 10 minutes in the morning or more time in the evening, the time is to belong to you and your child, let your child know you are care about he (she), not only gave them matters or money, your consideration more than every thing to them.
The third is friend: to be good friend with your child, when they are grow up, they think friends are more important than family, if we can let child feel we are also good friend with them, they will like to share any thing with us, for example: my daughter is nine years old , some times we ware the same jacket or shoes , we go shopping together .
Good communion can less conflicts with your child, try to hear their thinking and give them more consideration , you not only get a good child also get a good friend.
I want share some suggestions maybe can improve you and your child closely.
The first one is use your ear: listen, if your child want talk with you, do not to do another thing just listen what he(she) say. And remember donor have bad emotion even you really very angry, just come down. When he (she) talk finish than you can share your ideas with child.
The seconded is time: give time together with your child, like family day or dinner time .if you have time, even just 10 minutes in the morning or more time in the evening, the time is to belong to you and your child, let your child know you are care about he (she), not only gave them matters or money, your consideration more than every thing to them.
The third is friend: to be good friend with your child, when they are grow up, they think friends are more important than family, if we can let child feel we are also good friend with them, they will like to share any thing with us, for example: my daughter is nine years old , some times we ware the same jacket or shoes , we go shopping together .
Good communion can less conflicts with your child, try to hear their thinking and give them more consideration , you not only get a good child also get a good friend.
you are really a good father
Since the third child coming , you are really changing , let me feel so warm and sweet. your phone call every day , always care about my feeling , you know I can not drink milk because inflation confuse me , so you make juice every day for me , you know I can not wash dishes ,so you wash it every even you worked very late. you know I like to eat sour foods since pregnancy, so when comeing home , you always phone call and ask me what I want to eat.you know I can not sleep very well espcially with Lynn and Risto , so you seelp with them . you know I really want give up my studying, so you support me more and more .I want to say thank you and I love to you . you are really a good father and husband.
if you have the third child...
Before I really dream one more child , because two child really to less when we are old . I still feel it just a dream to me before three months.Now , we really have the thrid child in our family , since worried to happily , it is really dream come ture.
Whene I kewn your coming , it was really confuse me two weeks , we did no want to change our life now , but also feel sad that give up you , so I went to ask someone , she said you are a good child , I known it was not right way to told myself .I am so sorry about that .Howevre , you still life in my body now and we really forward your coming.
Whene I kewn your coming , it was really confuse me two weeks , we did no want to change our life now , but also feel sad that give up you , so I went to ask someone , she said you are a good child , I known it was not right way to told myself .I am so sorry about that .Howevre , you still life in my body now and we really forward your coming.
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