Did you ever feel leaves sparsely with your child when they are growth up day by day, even you cannot understand what are they thinking?
I want share some suggestions maybe can improve you and your child closely.
The first one is use your ear: listen, if your child want talk with you, do not to do another thing just listen what he(she) say. And remember donor have bad emotion even you really very angry, just come down. When he (she) talk finish than you can share your ideas with child.
The seconded is time: give time together with your child, like family day or dinner time .if you have time, even just 10 minutes in the morning or more time in the evening, the time is to belong to you and your child, let your child know you are care about he (she), not only gave them matters or money, your consideration more than every thing to them.
The third is friend: to be good friend with your child, when they are grow up, they think friends are more important than family, if we can let child feel we are also good friend with them, they will like to share any thing with us, for example: my daughter is nine years old , some times we ware the same jacket or shoes , we go shopping together .
Good communion can less conflicts with your child, try to hear their thinking and give them more consideration , you not only get a good child also get a good friend.
Monday, December 6, 2010
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