The educational background to be equal to..... what ?

         Recently   I  confused about my educational background , I must finsh it or stop it , every time I saw my childs  hope me stay home with them or heared the sound in the phone , it is real bad feeling in my heart ,I will ask myself : what am I doing ? Am I a good mom? The educational background to be equal to one person face or paysheet . Sometimes  I really want to be a mother , yes , just a mother , housework, don`t  lost every  time can keep with my childs , but if I give up or stop now , it is a pity  , if I still work I need the educational background  but my child need me , too?

If the govergament wants imporve fertility rate

  The news wirted that : if a family has the third child they can get three thousands each months and  g et  more  a birth allowance


    .In the Erope many countries there has fruitful  birth allowance  ,from child broth to senior high school even college ,they can get allowance , a helpful system will advance  birth allowance ,when our goverment planed the birth policy before maybe can refer theothers .
  If  our child can get more interests , parental leave not only  for  government workers ,   more   fair  in the  sexism   , set up more baby- feeding center .If the goverment real want to do some things helpful     birth allowance ,they need  hard more .Others wise babies will less each years and old people add each years.
 Now , we have the third child ,we did a hard decision is save him (her ),relative is we must  plan every thing , specially money .