Since last September started, I started learning to use weekends to complete the unfinished dream, I want to get a university degree, seemingly simple things, however, created two of the kids of my great rebound, and in the first end of the semester , I also began to think to give up.
Because during the day to go to work at night to take and care of children, child's homework and corrections, homework are in my shoulders, rather than my husband do not help, he is busy, Only am grateful for that, is almost 12 points a day before his work, but also to help clear meals bowl. It has made me very touched, because then the little boy back to school, prior to the agreement is good, my wealth is not suitable for hand-washing dishes bowl symptoms Therefore, cleaning work is handed over to him, he was gladly accepted. As for the other household-sharing, it is in this semester, has been dramatically changed.
I am a kindergarten teacher, often seen in recent years because of the relationship between the declining birthrate, it is almost everything the children are parents, grandparents, themselves, afraid their children dirty hands and wet clothes. Examples There is a little boy in my class, he is a big classes student .One day, his mother came to school to pick him up, he was wiping the table to help the teacher than his mother said the next: Teacher, my children come to school is to learn, not to rub on the table. You guess what? I smile the moment against the mother said;:Of course, the baby go to school to learn, and wipe the table is also a learning experience . In fact, you let him learn every things in kindergarten of the affairs and basic skills,than he went to outside made fun of his peers will not come .Well, classroom is everyone's, every person has a responsibility to maintain the environment and clean up it. Do you agreement? Of course, the moment the mother also agree with me who said, after which she will be more assured that the home-wai a treasure to me to teach. After that, of course, the same mom or dad for this kind of issue to be raised by a small number, And I still have to be consistent ideas and communicate with them.
And in my life, my children is how division of labor it? 8-year-old sister, is responsible for folding clothes, dry clothes and clothes into the washing machine Jiang and classified the work of 4-year-old brother, is responsible for dry socks, folding socks, will close down and dry the clothes into the dryers, the father is responsible for washing dishes bowls, and sometimes they also responsible for sweeping and mopping the floors. through our concerted efforts, under very quickly we can the completion of chores of. If we like traveling holidays , make sure everyone was out with the housework done. In fact, the beginning, there was no deliberate ask them is to first use to teach in a manner that slowly accumulated bit by bit the.
You may ask me, that if they do wrong with that? Has just begun, there will be less than ideal situation, do not scold them right away, it should be after the first, thank you and encourage clear that, if so how it can be a better . I believe that, after repeated efforts, they will do great. You may ask me again, that kids will want to reward? My answer is, do not wait for children to reward, but rather took the initiative to reward their children, in the Our family is based on cumulative points system, two housework can change a star, a star is 1 droll may seem small, but not too little accumulated ~ More recently, because the childcare's birthday soon arrived, respectively in May and June, we have set a new system is an extra reward if they can reach 50 at the birthday star can in exchange for a wish. This method for the 8-year-old sister, quite attractive, 4 year-old brother was driving in the sister's efforts to reach the next.
In the last week, I returned home after class and found the home had been cleaned up outside the balcony of the clothes are collected at the well, folded, and is neatly placed in the wardrobe, full hearts can not help but be deeply touched. Of course, not forgotten to the President and the children greatly encouraged. the above is my personal sharing and collective experience, you may to try?, perhaps, have different harvest ~ also do not forget that children are coming to imitate adults, teaching by example, and give verbal directions are very important and key.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
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